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FREE ebooks for kids!

Did you know the library subscribes to Tumblebooks?  Tumblebooks is a curated database of children’s e-books, available by subscription to elementary schools and public libraries.  Every Morrill Memorial Library cardholder may use their library card barcode to sign into Tumblebooks on their own personal computer or mobile device.  In addition, any library user may come into the Children’s Room to use the dedicated Tumblebooks station.  Tumblebooks offers kids more than just full color ebooks;  it also features read-alongs, games, puzzles, videos, and nonfiction books on interesting subjects.

Click here to access Tumblebooks on your computer at home with your library card.

To access Tumblebooks on your mobile device with your library card, click here. 

 

The Lost Art of Listening

Girl with HeadphonesScreen time. It’s the new buzzword in parental anxiety. Parents are constantly bombarded with advice and warnings regarding how much time their kids spend in front of the TV, computer, tablet, and phone. To be sure, our lives definitely revolve around screens. Even adults spend most of our working lives and leisure time (and all those “in between” times like waiting i line or at a doctor’s office) are spent in front of screens.

I think we can all appeal to common sense when it comes to limiting screen time. Rather than giving into hysteria or the latest trend, let’s acknowledge we all live in the 21st century and technology is deeply enmeshed in our individual lives and society at large. But we all know when enough is enough. Kids who are staring blankly at a TV or phone like zombies or refuse to go outside on a sunny day need a break. Adults who are constantly posting on social media or teens who can’t let go of the phone at the dinner table need a break. Even just feeling anxious can be a sign that a digital detox is a must.

To be sure, reading is a great antidote to an excess of screen time. Books fire the imagination, provide an escape from our realities, and stimulate our minds. We certainly encourage all families to come to the library to check out books for kids. But there are times as a parent when you need a break but don’t want to turn to screen for some much needed sanity. Maybe you have a child who talks non-stop in the car or a set of siblings who can’t stop arguing. Perhaps you have an only child who relies on you for interaction and you need a parental timeout! Whatever the situation, there other solutions than just toughing it out or calling in TV babysitter. We need to cultivate the lost art of listening.

My sanity as a mother relies on two very important types of media: music and podcasts. To be fair, we watch plenty of TV. At age 4, my daughter can already operate most iPhone apps better than I can. In order to get away from screens, music is my go-to. Even as a baby, my daughter has always gravitated towards music. Her first hand gesture involved waving her hand like a conductor in order to compel a willing grandparent to sing to her. We started off with kid’s classics like Raffi’s Singable Songs for the Very Young,  Little Seed which is Elizabeth Mitchell’s cover album of famous Woody Guthrie children’s songs, and Cedarmont Kids’ 100 Singalongs for Kids. All three of these albums contain wonderful kids’ music but you can only hear “The Wheels on the Bus” so many times before you start to lose your mind.

Wading into the world of pop music can be a minefield for parents but it’s necessary to expand kids’ musical horizons. Many parents test the waters with ubiquitous Kidz Bop compilations. The Kidz Bop brand touts that their music is “sung by kids for kids” and features up-to-the-minute, clean versions of current pop songs. Parents can listen to Top 40 hits without the worry of their children hearing explicit words or content. Library patrons can either borrow Kidz Bop CDs from the Children’s Room collection or stream various Kidz Bop compilations from Hoopla, the library’s digital streaming service.

Another route to listening to decent music with kids are soundtracks to popular children’s movies. Most parents know their children are obsessed with the Minions from the Despicable Me and Minions movie franchises. Those little yellow melodious henchmen will forever have a place in my heart for getting my daughter to listen to “Break On Through (To The Other Side)” by The Doors. I’m sure Jim Morrison never thought his music would reach a new audience via an animated film. Watching the film Sing also introduced us to the Beatles via Jennifer Hudson’s amazing performance of “Golden Slumber/Carry That Weight” as Meena, the elephant. We’ve since gone to explore the art of “the cover” by playing Lennon and McCartney’s original song, then listening to Jennifer Hudson’s version and then comparing them both to Ben Folds’ rendition of the Beatles’ classic from Abbey Road.

Podcasts for kids are also an option to keep up kids’ listening skills. Podcasts are downloadable audio files, usually on a particular topic or in a series. Adults have been obsessing over them ever since Serial but there are now tons of podcasts geared for children and family listening. My personal favorite is the simply titled Stories Podcast which features artfully narrated renditions of classic fairy tales and new stories, often peppered with original songs. It’s another great way to sneak in some literature into your kids’ media diets and could keep the whole family happy for a car ride or a rainy afternoon. Kids with a love of science might enjoy Brains On!, a podcast that features scientific exploration about the topics kids think about. Each episode is co-hosted by the child who poses the question for that week. If your family likes to ruminate about big ideas, Short & Curly might be a great listen. Each week poses real life ethical dilemmas for kids to consider and presents evidence from all sides of an issue. Similarly, there’s But Why?, a series devoted to answering kids’ favorite question.

Clearly, when we need a break from screens, listening to various types of media can provide great entertainment and information for children and families. Kids can learn new things and explore different subjects while parents get to keep their sanity while feeling good about expanding their family’s horizons and honing their listening skills. Sounds like a win-win for everyone!

Kate Tigue is the Assistant Children’s Librarian at the Morrill Memorial Library in Norwood, Mass. Read Kate’s column in the August 3rd edition of the Norwood Transcript & Bulletin.

Books in the Time of Exhaustion

Reading Mom to SleepEvery expectant mother goes through a period of anxiety when she imagines what life will be like after the baby arrives. Will anything be the same? It’s one of those rubicon moments that you can’t totally fathom until it happens. Most of us realize that life will never be the same once a child enters the picture but understanding the enormity and permanence of that change can take some time to process.

One of my chief worries during pregnancy about life as a new mom was wondering how I would keep reading. Compared to concerns about the baby’s health, it’s a little trivial but reading is my only lifelong hobby. I’ve never been dedicated to crafting or outdoor pursuits or any other recreational activity. Reading has been one of the constants in my life since childhood and the one thing I truly love to do. Like many moms-to-be, I was trying to figure out how I could hang on to some small part of myself during an intense life change.

Now that I’m almost four years into this parenting gig, I can say two things for sure: 1) I’m surviving and 2) I still read. Of course, my life looks very different to the one I lived before motherhood. Do I read as much or as often as I would like? No way. I used to be able to juggle reading multiple books without missing a plot point and could remember my place in all of them without deigning to use a bookmark. I used to read for hours at a time. I could read for more than twenty minutes without falling asleep. And I certainly never woke myself up by dropping a book on my own face. I don’t know that life anymore.

But I’ve made some adjustments and figured out how to keep reading as a parent. Here are my top tips to you keep reading when you feel like you’re too busy running after little ones or carting around older kids!

  • Lower your expectations: This is decent advice for all areas of life once a baby arrives on the scene. You will not be able to read like you once did. You may not be able to read every day. You may have to change what you read or when you read. If you expect your reading life to remain unchanged, you are wrong. Allow me to phrase it as our Disney overlords do: “Let it go! Let it goooo!”.
  • Get the right equipment: Buy an e-reader. I know many of you book traditionalists will roll your eyes or try to resist. But using an e-reader or a tablet is truly the most convenient way to read as a parent. Firstly, e-readers and tablets are extremely lightweight and allow you to read one-handed, a necessity when your baby won’t let you put him or her down. In addition, these devices have backlighting so you can comfortably read in the dark, perfect for late night feedings or marathon “will you stay with me until I fall asleep” sessions with older kids.
  • Change up your format: If you’re in the car a lot, either commuting to work or waiting for kids at activities, try books on CD or downloading e-audiobooks to your phone. You can turn your drive or wait into productive reading time! If you download or stream e-audiobooks on your phone, you can also make the most of nap time or housework and listen to a book with your headphones while you get things done. The library currently provides e-books and e-audiobooks through our Overdrive catalog and Hoopla streaming service.
  • Change your style: Maybe your tastes run toward Tolstoy or Dickens or sweeping fantasy sagas with hundreds of characters. You might need to consider shorter, lighter reading material. I’m not saying parenthood kills off your brain cells but it certainly consumes most of them and you may not be able to remember all the Game of Thrones plotlines as accurately as you did before kids. If reading has become a chore or too much a challenge, you won’t do it.
  • Give yourself a break and try something new. Maybe it’s time to explore some short story collections or tear through a fast-paced thriller. Maybe it’s time for something light, something that gives your brain a vacation. Or, perhaps, you can go with the kid theme and re-read some childhood favorites or read some of the recent Newbery Award winners. Reading kid-lit can also give you an idea of what your child might be reading in the future or give you ideas of books you can share together as they grow up. Whatever you do, put those parenting books down! They’ll only make you feel bad and you need a break from the anxiety of parenting small kids.
  • Set a goal: I have my husband to thank for this one. He’s a very disciplined person who finds it easier to create a habit by setting a hard and fast goal rather than just hoping he’ll read more. He reads ten pages from one novel in the morning and another ten at night. It’s not a huge commitment but this habit has allowed him to read twenty books a year, a feat for any parent. Setting a goal can keep you focused and force you to tae time for yourself as you develop a new reading habit.
  • Find an excuse: Many parents, especially moms, can feel guilty about taking any time for themselves. When you find yourself feeling guilty for taking time to read, remember that studies show children who SEE their parents reading usually become readers themselves and are more likely to engage in reading as a leisure activity as they get older. So by taking time to read, you are modeling the behavior you want your children to emulate.
  • Make it fun: Join a book club or an online reading group. This gives you an excuse to read, get out on your own (sans kids), or at least be social. If you can’t get out, try joining GoodReads or another online reading challenge. Even using Facebook to ask for book recommendations will generate some great feedback and inspire you to get back to reading. If reading becomes a conversation point or a social outlet, you’ll be dying to get into your next book.

To me, reading is as essential to me as breathing. It’s both my escape and my way to understand the world around me. It is my lifeline to the rest of the world when my everyday life feels consumed by making mac ‘n’ cheese and potty training. It gives me something interesting to talk about with my husband and other adults. It keeps me sane and I hope it’s something I can get my daughter to love. My little one isn’t reading yet but I can only hope she gets as much enjoyment out of books as I do. And the only way that will happening is if I keep on reading!

Kate Tigue is the Assistant Children’s Librarian at the Morrill Memorial Library  in Norwood, Mass. Read her column in the May 11, 2016 issue of the Norwood Transcript & Bulletin.

Check Out New Board Games!

board-games-website-imageWe now have board games for kids and teens to check out!  Each board game will circulate for three (3) weeks.  Children’s board games are located in the free standing book case in the Fiction section of the Children’s Room (where our Graphic Novels used to be found!).  Board games for teens are located in the Young Adult room on the bottom shelves of the New Book/YA SpeedRead area.  Here’s a list of what we have:

Children’s Board Games

Chutes and Ladders
Life
Pahrcheesi
Robot Turtles
Trivial Pursuit : Harry Potter edition
Trouble

Young Adult Board Games

Alhambra
Catan
Catan Extension
Dominion
Exploding Kittens
Pandemic
Risk
Stratego
Ticket to Ride
Ticket to Ride Europe

Come and check out a game today!

New Year’s (Reading) Resolution

“You must have read every book in this library!”.  I frequently hear this comment while I’m working at the desk in the library. Most people look a bit disappointed  when I tell them I haven’t read every book in the whole library.  Not even close.  Librarians try to be well-versed in different kinds of literature but we are just like most people with different preferences. I have to admit, as much as I’d like to pretend I have broad literary taste, I am a niche reader.  I have my groove, my comfort zone, my sweet spot when it comes to books and I really have to make an effort broaden my reading horizons.  Since 2017 is almost here, it’s a great time to break out of a rut and try new things.

Personally, I love Young Adult books (or YA as we say in the biz) and have a particular fondness for YA fantasy books with strong female protagonists. I’ve read so many of these kinds of books I can easily spot something that will strike my fancy by the cover art or even by the first couple of sentences in the book! Sarah J. Maas is my current favorite Young Adult fantasy author and any new edition in either her Throne of Glass and Court of Thorn and Roses series are at the top of my “to read” list.

If you know you like reading a certain kind of book, what’s the point trying to find new things?  One glance in the bookstore or on Amazon shows us that every genre gains hundreds of additional titles daily. Publishing has exploded over the past twenty years and the industry excels at beating a dead horse by promulgating every derivative plot that comes along.  If you weren’t inclined to seek out other types of books beyond your current interest, there probably wouldn’t be a need. You’d certainly never run out of things to read in your favorite literary genre!

But variety is the spice of life!  Most of us will never get to all those things on our bucket list.  The world is wide and we may never get to see or hear or smell or do it all.  But we can read about it. As George R. R. Martin said in A Dance with Dragons, “A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies… The man who never reads lives only one.”  Reading is a way to travel beyond ourselves and our present circumstances.  As much as we all like the comfort and familiarity of same-ness, there are a few reasons you might consider branching out.

First, constantly reading the same type of books is boring. You might find yourself skipping pages in a familiar plot or reading the ending of a book or even wondering if you’ve read this particular title before!  All three are signs that it’s time to try something different.  I’ve read many dystopian young adult novels.  Only a few have really challenged my thinking or left an impression.  I know I need to change gears when I start accurately predicting the ending of a book before I get to the middle of the plot!  

Plus, reading something new and different gives you an interesting topic of discussion at your next stop at the office watercooler or holiday cocktail party.  And if you hate the new book you’re reading?  Feel free to bellyache!  Sometimes, it’s easier to find common ground with other people when we complain about the things we can’t stand rather than gushing over the things we love.

Finally, you will notice a drop in quality as you dig deeper into a genre.  As a librarian who orders a wide variety of genres for the library’s collection, I’ve seen the same types of stories over and over.  Successful, memorable books are ones that take a fresh look at familiar tropes in a genre.  For example, many people found the The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo series by Stieg Larsson so refreshing because the Lisbeth Salander character challenged both the traditional roles played by detective and victim in a detective story.

When I look back at my own reading journey, I can see definite patterns emerging as I’ve grown older.  In my teens and 20s, I was exclusively a mystery reader.  Then I moved on to young adult books once I reached my 30s.  I think I’m at a reading crossroads again as I’m noticing my general impatience with authors and genres I previously devoured.  So how do I move on?  How do I shake it up?

A few strategies come to mind but they are all based on reading as a social activity.  Most people think of reading as a solitary pursuit but my time in the library world has shown me how books bring us together.  The best way to find new books is through other people.  You can definitely browse the shelves to see if anything jumps out at you but books take on a new life when another human is speaking (or writing) passionately about them.  The first place I generally look for new and upcoming titles is BookPage, a monthly bulletin featuring book reviews, interviews with authors, book lists, genre roundups and other special features.  The library gives out this publication free of charge to the public at the Circulation and Reference Desks.

Another great way to get out of a reading rut is to join a book club.  Book club leaders usually decide which book the group will read which forces participants to try things outside their comfort zone.  Some book groups are a bit more democratic and have members vote on each month’s title.  The library even runs two wonderful book groups for patrons to join.  Our ”First Thursday Book Discussion” has been facilitated for 30 years by veteran reference librarian Margot Sullivan.  The library’s other book group for 20- and 30-somethings, Titles on Tap, takes book clubs beyond the library and meets at Napper Tandy’s on the fourth Tuesday of the month.  

If in-person groups aren’t your thing, you could always try joining an online book challenge to discover new titles.  GoodReads, an online social media platform for readers, includes online book challenges and online book groups.  Groups are tagged by the genre they represent. Discussion are held on online message boards and encourage readers from all over the world to virtually connect.

Ultimately, like all things in life, the best way to find new things to read is to keep an open mind.  Even if you hear about a book and you aren’t sure if you’ll like it, give it a shot.  And don’t forget! Librarians are your greatest book recommendation resource!  We may look like a tame bunch but our staff boasts a crew of diverse readers and an insatiable drive to find the right book for every person.  We may not have read every book in the library but we certainly can FIND every book in the library.

Kate Tigue is the Assistant Children’s Librarian at the Morrill Memorial Library.  Read Kate’s column in the December 22nd issue of the Norwood Transcript and Bulletin. 

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